I have noticed one thing with Christian dating service sites. And that is a lot of women and men need to know some tips and tricks about how to use the online Christian dating services. Please consider these tips and I hope these will help you in your struggle.
Tips for Women
· Never ever give out your personal information unless and until you are dead sure that you can trust the other person. Because if your number is noted in his diary, all he needs is your name and the state where you live, and the next thing you will know is that he’s at your doorstep.
· If the man is pushing too much for you to give him your phone number or to talk on the phone, that’s a bad sign. A man who is godly will respect you enough until you are ready to talk and move forward.
· A lot of people wonder who should initiate contact. My opinion is don’t initiate. Let the guy take the initiative to move further, for a call, date or whatever the case might be. Personally, I would want to be the one to start the contact, too. That way, the respect factor will be more on his part.
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While using a Christian dating service, Use a temporary mailing ID, e.g. yahoo, so that he does not get your permanent mailing ID for life. Do not put your full name on the ID that you make. That would be a mistake.
· As a courtesy, you should write back to every guy who writes to you, even if you think that he’s not the one for you. Use some typical reply e.g. “I’m glad that you wrote to me, but after visiting your profile, I don’t think that we are a very good match. Thanks and God bless you.” Do give them at least one reply.
· These men are your brothers in Christ, so treat them well.
For Men
· Don’t force a woman to move forward too quickly. Be agreeable and value her enough to wait for her to be contented before moving ahead.
· Don’t forget that these women are your sisters in Christ, so treat them well! That means admiration, esteem, compassion, calmness, endurance and self-discipline, to say a few.
· NO SEX! This is God’s Daughter we are talking about here! If by any chance you believe that you can bend God’s standard for sexual transparency, you are conning yourself.
Sex is not just intercourse, but oral, touching, masturbation, touching of breasts and below the waist of men is also a part of it. And that is NOT allowed.
· If a woman says that she’s not interested, then just leave her. Don’t hang onto her. There is no need to respond. There are many women out there waiting for you.
· Using a Christian dating service, as a courtesy, you should write back to every women who writes to you, even if you think that she’s not the one for you. Use some typical reply e.g. “I’m glad that you wrote to me, but after visiting your profile, I don’t think that we are a very good match. Thanks and God bless you.” Do give them at least one reply.
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